Love...Beyond Conditions

It’s not a story about the only love that we think when ever we hear the word love; it’s about any person u love. It can be your parents, partner, friends any one in the world. There was a time in my life when I was afraid of loving some one. Because at that time I saw people who loved each other, got hurt...
I realized then that I have senses to feel...whenever times come, I would give up my all what ever I could, love so deeply and whole heartedly. It would be a truly emotional and exotic experience. Life would be beautiful even more than it could ever be thought of. I would be dreaming about the object of my affection day n every night, imagining the ideal times together, thinking of what I can do for the persn to show that how much I care...I would feel light, enthusiastic and thrilled, blooming with the lively joy I feel inside.
THEN SOMEHOW, SOMETHING WOULD GO WRONG AND MY WHOLE WORLD OF SMALL DREAMS CRASH.
Love…..Disappointments...PAIN...Anger…Fear…and at the end….Hatred….Why...why that happened?
Can't we love without pain? Is it really price to pay for all the happiness we feel when we love some one?
Now at this point I realized that we could love without getting hurt n it is the turn in my life which bring me back to have new days to live up with shining bright mornings n sound nights to end up my day with..........
It is possible when I understand what UNCONDITIONAL love is all about...
Love is one of the most powerful forces in universe. It is the fire that burns up ur inside, the essence of being something…. having something...It is a precious gift due to which we were born and alive that defines our purpose in life...The problem is that we do not understand it true meaning….If we just keep in mind that we can indeed preserve its true meaning, we can love to the fullest and be truly happy. Accept the fact that other people express their love differently.
How do you express your love? You say, 'I LOVE U THREE TIMES A DAY’...You try to make the person happy as much as you can...and do whatever the person likes a lot...
How does that person express’s his/her love? He/she rarely says "I LOVE YOU...He/she doesn’t express what he/she feels...the person forgets your birthday and does not know what to give you as a gift...
But u never know..............in doing nothing for you.... probably he/she is doing some thing for you that is out of your imagination...He/she probably loves you more than you can imagine ever...he/she just shows it differently...If you accept that you'll get the most beautiful perspective of your relationship...
Derive happiness from giving love. When you love, don’t care what others feel...just do it. And cherish the satisfaction in having given someone something of yourself.
It’s just like giving a gift whether it is appreciated or not, finding joy in simply giving. LOVE WITHOUT EXPECTING ANYTHING IN RETURN...........
From where this pain comes?
PAIN COMES IN WHEN YOU DEMAND SOMETHING IN RETURN FOR THE
LOVE YOU GIVE...........Love cannot always be reciprocal.... Love between the two can never be of the same intensity at the same time and place. No matter how much your loved one loves you, he/she will never fill all your needs all the time. And you will be waiting in misery forever, if you believe you should love only when you are sure to receive equal love in return.
Love now. The past is gone and the future is just a dream. All of yesterday's aches and pains, as well as the loves and laughter’s, are mere memories. Let them go. Fantasies and worries are for a future that may never come. Do not dwell on them. Just don’t bother about what you'll get tomorrow. Live now. Give love now. Do it and enjoy it now. Stop thinking whether you'll get the person or not.....Throw away those destructive thoughts. You always have to be in control, that you always have to be right and to do right. Loving relationships are flexible. Dynamic and evolving. Leave room now for a change interaction. Allow for new behavior and learning experiences. When we welcome these in our lives, we open ourselves to sharing more love and affection and less frustration and pain. Yes, you will say unconditional love is easier said than done. Especially when we have always believed that love is give and take. But believe that love is simply giving. And you will be surprised that a lot of it, even more, actually comes back to you. .
Love others without expecting to live with that person forever but with an eternal feeling that this comes or happened in your life because u r blessed with this gift...Relations are never seasonal and reasonable...Love is beautiful and all its seasons are beautiful charming life with its elegant and spell bounding essence.... always keep faith strong that love is boundless and limitless.... experience the unconditional love because sometimes conditions broke hearts into uncountable pieces making life a living hell...Life is beautiful only because it has something called LOVE...to love and to be loved by someone is the greatest conviction in life..........LOVE IS GREAT, WHAT IF IT BRINGS A LITTLE PAIN...BUT NOT ALWAYS...SOMETIMES PAINS SHEDDS AWAY VERY EASILY WHEN LIFE HAS A MEANING JUST TO GIVE AND NO REGRETS ON GETTING NOTHING...
Start experiencing the most beautiful feeling felt ever with out putting it into bounds of conditions...if you have it in your life.... enjoy it and see its beauty.
And one day when you will be looking back at the pages of your life...There will be no regrets and pain there.
THIS IS WHAT I CALL REAL AND EVERLASTIND LOVE...