Today’s man is like an extinguished coal, you touch it carelessly and you get closer and closer to it with out hesitation because you know that it is not dangerous to be closer to it ,it will not hurt. But you know what? We all say that we should always be at a distance with an extinguished coal because you never know that there must be a burning peace in side it, in the core of the coal. Besides this saying we do not believe in it and that’s the reason that we get closer to it.
Well let’s take it in a different manner, we consider that burning core as the soul of the man and it’s very attractive that with in that use less coal there is still a life exists. And that is the reason that we get closer and closer carelessly. Because it is a fasct that life attracts life. And that is what attracts us. During this journey of getting closer to the core we have a very optimistic view of being closer and get together, we even make fantasies and all. But when we get to the core initially it is warm and its warmth is kind of soothing and has very good effect on us, we get inspired and feel happy for it that we sort of found some one really alive at last.
And that’s where we become more careless; we just put a lid on the negativities of the hot core to which we are getting closer. Closed eyes, feeling our self to be the happiest person on earth, lots of love and affection and then there is a first small blast… you feel a bit unstable but you recover very soon because it was only a minor blast… you still keep your eyes closed and feel that nothings will go wrong, every thing is fine and it will be and must be. But sadly from there on we are totally wrong, we simply betray our selves from there, the second blast and then the third and so on, some times a cold war gets started or some times there is a big attack with out any ultimatum. The difference is that in cold war you get your self to the heat slowly and get hurt and in a direct attack you get your self destroyed in no time having nothing in the end but a mental y and physically tortured person with no where to go no where to turn …you keep on shouting inside you, crying and praying and asking your self that “what was my fault that I got this in that closeness and affection?” there are no answers of that question but echo of your own voice. Gradually that burned skin of yours gets toughen up and the soft corners of your heart that were once alive and considered, they are buried inside that hard &burned courting. You are a bit suborned for this sort of situation in life.
With the passage of time you make self to this kind of life what is left around you, but when ever you are sitting alone and recalling the memories of your life, those miserable parts are revised again in your mind and you get your self hurt again for no reason. Some times with these sort of experiences people get tougher and tougher but some are still so miserable that when ever they think of there past ,it makes them to cry and shed tears even more then before . The burning wounds get fresh even more and so they hurt even more and that’s When It Really Hurts.
Well let’s take it in a different manner, we consider that burning core as the soul of the man and it’s very attractive that with in that use less coal there is still a life exists. And that is the reason that we get closer and closer carelessly. Because it is a fasct that life attracts life. And that is what attracts us. During this journey of getting closer to the core we have a very optimistic view of being closer and get together, we even make fantasies and all. But when we get to the core initially it is warm and its warmth is kind of soothing and has very good effect on us, we get inspired and feel happy for it that we sort of found some one really alive at last.
And that’s where we become more careless; we just put a lid on the negativities of the hot core to which we are getting closer. Closed eyes, feeling our self to be the happiest person on earth, lots of love and affection and then there is a first small blast… you feel a bit unstable but you recover very soon because it was only a minor blast… you still keep your eyes closed and feel that nothings will go wrong, every thing is fine and it will be and must be. But sadly from there on we are totally wrong, we simply betray our selves from there, the second blast and then the third and so on, some times a cold war gets started or some times there is a big attack with out any ultimatum. The difference is that in cold war you get your self to the heat slowly and get hurt and in a direct attack you get your self destroyed in no time having nothing in the end but a mental y and physically tortured person with no where to go no where to turn …you keep on shouting inside you, crying and praying and asking your self that “what was my fault that I got this in that closeness and affection?” there are no answers of that question but echo of your own voice. Gradually that burned skin of yours gets toughen up and the soft corners of your heart that were once alive and considered, they are buried inside that hard &burned courting. You are a bit suborned for this sort of situation in life.
With the passage of time you make self to this kind of life what is left around you, but when ever you are sitting alone and recalling the memories of your life, those miserable parts are revised again in your mind and you get your self hurt again for no reason. Some times with these sort of experiences people get tougher and tougher but some are still so miserable that when ever they think of there past ,it makes them to cry and shed tears even more then before . The burning wounds get fresh even more and so they hurt even more and that’s When It Really Hurts.
